{"id":10060,"date":"2024-12-05T16:39:06","date_gmt":"2024-12-05T21:39:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laholmberg.com\/?p=10060"},"modified":"2024-12-05T16:39:06","modified_gmt":"2024-12-05T21:39:06","slug":"just-be-done-with-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laholmberg.com\/?p=10060","title":{"rendered":"just BE DONE with it"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ever find yourself trapped in a state of self-loathing over something you did or said in one of your many yesterdays?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Me too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, that&#8217;s exactly the emotional molasses I found myself stuck in when I opened this morning&#8217;s newsletter from <a href=\"https:\/\/thegrowtheq.com\/how-to-be-resilient\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Growth Equation<\/a>  only to receive a gift:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-small-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Finish every day and be done with it. For manners and for wise living, it is a vice to remember. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can.\u00a0Tomorrow\u00a0is a new day; you shall begin it well and serenely, and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This day for all that is good and fair. It is too dear, with its hopes and invitations, to waste a moment on the rotten yesterdays.\u201d \u2014 Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A reminder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>We&#8217;re here to learn<\/strong>, not to be perfect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yesterday&#8217;s passed. Tomorrow isn&#8217;t here yet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Any noise about yesterday is a distraction from the NOW we&#8217;re meant to be inhabiting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And right NOW you&#8217;re doing this- <strong>whatever<\/strong> your<em> this<\/em> is, and you don&#8217;t need to be perfect!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You just need to be IN IT. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beating up on yourself pulls you out, drags you down, and prevents you from engaging in what&#8217;s yet to come with a fully engaged, high flying spirit- cheating everybody out of receiving the gifts of your <em>true magnitude.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was reminded that none of us, including myself, has the <em>luxury<\/em> of doing that. Our gifts and light are sorely needed by a suffering world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So pick yourself up and take in a breath of self-appreciation and resolve to clear your slate and start fresh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You&#8217;re exactly where you&#8217;re meant to be in this moment, doing exactly what you&#8217;re meant to be doing in this moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>BE<\/strong> there- without<em> &#8220;being cumbered with your old nonsense.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After all, new <em>nonsense<\/em> surely awaits us. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-x-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;My power flurries through the air into the ground<br \/>My soul is spiraling in frozen fractals all around<br \/>And one thought crystallizes like an icy blast<br \/>I&#8217;m never going back, the past is in the past<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-x-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Let it go, let it go<br \/>And I&#8217;ll rise like the break of dawn<br \/>Let it go, let it go<br \/>That perfect girl is gone<br \/>Here I stand in the light of day<br \/>Let the storm rage on<br \/>The cold never bothered me anyway<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-x-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Source:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/lyrics.lyricfind.com\/\">LyricFind<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-x-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Songwriters: Kristen Jane Anderson-Lopez \/ Robert Joseph Lopez<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-x-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Let It Go lyrics \u00a9 Walt Disney Music Company<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/moSFlvxnbgk?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever find yourself trapped in a state of self-loathing over something you did or said in one of your many yesterdays? 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