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Love can take it

The no that you convince yourself is a yes due to a fear of pissing someone off, hurting feelings, or in any way rocking a boat that you waste an exhaustive amount of energy attempting to keep still and steady? SPEAK IT. People withstand being pissed. A little rocking won't sink a sturdy boat. Feelings... Continue Reading →

YOU know

One of my favorite quotes from Dr. Phil is, "you've got to name it to claim it." This means two things to me: You can't change something within yourself that you don't acknowledge. You can't expect to get what you want if you don't even know what that something is. If you're struggling with either of these,... Continue Reading →

It’s my life- don’t you forget.

Whether it's Talk Talk or No Doubt in my ear, the reminder is simple: "It's my life- don't you forget." So many times I'd be walking along, listening to their words and thinking about all the fuckers spiritual agents of change on my journey who had failed to understand that my life was indeed my... Continue Reading →

Taking charge

You are in charge of your life. I need to hear that. Often. Maybe you can benefit from the reminder as well, so I'm going to say it again with emphasis for all who choose to be reminded: YOU are in charge of your life. Here's the part that used to trip me up: if... Continue Reading →

Boundary Issues? Remember SPAM

Like the late Rodney Dangerfield, Spam does not get any respect. As far as you may be concerned, it lives its life there as just another can in your cupboard, waiting for the day when a craving for meat in your sandwich and nary a speck of it in your refrigerator forces you to broaden... Continue Reading →

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