The no that you convince yourself is a yes due to a fear of pissing someone off, hurting feelings, or in any way rocking a boat that you waste an exhaustive amount of energy attempting to keep still and steady?
People withstand being pissed.
A little rocking won’t sink a sturdy boat.
Feelings are resilient.
True love requires complete honesty and transparency in our words and actions. Any relationship that can’t withstand the discomfort that often accompanies the fearlessness required to navigate solely in the truth is not grounded in love.
It’s operating out of fear.
And it’s not worthy of your energy.
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