Finding your answers

Weight loss is some tricky shit. Well, it seems like it's some tricky shit anyway. Truthfully, it's not the actual weight loss itself that's tricky, because that's a pretty cut and dry matter, but if you tell that to somebody who is in the midst of a weight loss struggle don't expect them to agree. … Continue reading Finding your answers

Keep It To Yourself

Keeping my mouth shut was is not a habit that came to me naturally, but the practice of doing so has served me immeasurably when it comes to learning boundaries, and in doing so, self-love. Shutting up is an empowering ability in that it allows you to keep part of yourself for yourself, which is only an … Continue reading Keep It To Yourself

NICE is a four letter word

I won't go into the specifics of the particular situation, but I remember clearly the moment a few years back when a description of my being "nice" was carelessly tossed into whatever the conversation was that a group of us was having and for the first time I identified it for the condescending insult that, … Continue reading NICE is a four letter word

Working In Secret

Pssst... you there. Yeah, you- the one working your ass off with no recognition and perhaps wondering why. The universe has laid it on my heart that you're due for an energy boosting reminder that you are neither forgotten nor unseen and your work is important. It was laid on my heart to re-post this … Continue reading Working In Secret

Get one under your belt

START WITH ONE AND KEEP BUILDING... Given my early-bird tendencies, I tend to favor early morning workouts. For me, my workout is the equivalent of a mind calming drug I can't afford to miss a dose of, so the earlier the better. I also feel my strongest, with greater endurance early in the day. That … Continue reading Get one under your belt

Friends with benefits

According to Dictionary.com noun(used as a euphemism) a friend with whom one has sex without a romantic relationship or commitment We're not going to talk about friends having sex, though it's an interesting topic. I will say I don't believe that it works. For both people. It always seemed to me that in the majority of cases one person may be completely benefiting, but the other is kidding themself. Because … Continue reading Friends with benefits